241 - MISH MISH

241 por Maria Carvalho - SEMANA 12

O efeito dominó!

Uma pausa em nosso estudo sobre Mish-Mish. A vida é interessante, projetamos algo, mas daí vem ela....em sua acelerada forma de dizer, não se programe porque de inopino tudo pode mudar.

Então, comentei semana passada e em vários posts atrás sobre o efeito positivo da dança, enquanto me preparava para nossa conversa desta semana li este comentário da Aida Al Adawi e parei para refletir:

http://contrapposto.deviantart.com/art/Dancer-with-a-Face-60439500

"Robin Williams death is such a loss as a human being and as a great talent and inspiration. So many of us, me included suffer from serious depression. Teaching and performing for many of us is the thing that saves us from self destructing and keeps us moving forward. There are many days when I can't get up or find any motivation or self value. It is always a struggle with those of us who are ADD and may also have shades of Bipolar. We learn to get through our daily lives by creating a detailed environment ranging from putting our key always in the same place by the door to carrying around lists of what we need to do minute to minute. Unless you have had to live with this there is no way to understand how hard we have to work just getting through every day. Often people who are not ADD think it is just an excuse or that it is "over prescribed" but when you truly are it is simply a way of life that if we are lucky we are diagnosed and learn to live with. Dr. Daniel Amen, has given us many tools to help us learn to make our lives more productive. I only recently have begun to be able to read. His books show brain scans of the 7 types of ADD and provide clear explanations of all the different combinations of factors that relate to them. What an eye opener. I lost my sister to suicide in the mid 70s and my brother was murdered in the mid 90s. Both struggled with forms of ADD. Those left suffer greatly from the loss. My heart goes out to Robin Williams family. The hardest thing is that they make the choice for what they think they need to be at peace and we can't go back and help change it. We are left here in this life and as his wife said, we need to remember all the positive and beauty that he gave to all of us. But we also will have to grieve the terrible loss and hope that the next generation will have better tools to help those going through this to find the help they need to save them from this kind of pain. I am sad but I do understand the pain."

Temos oportunidade de escolher a luz, mas alguns preferem as sombras. Viver
é uma grande aventura com dificuldades mil, parece aqueles vídeo-games cheios de fases a serem ultrapassadas. Encontrar algo que lhe motive a sair da cama toda manhã é vital, isso ficará evidente quando alcançarmos o outono da existência e observarmos que a nossa vitalidade é a mesma dos 20 anos, para tanto as escolhas que fazemos hoje serão fundamentais.

Cada um com seus conflitos, dificuldades...e para todos os problemas há milhões de alternativas, é necessário estar apto a enxerga-las. Olhamos bailarinas como a Aida, que citei, e pensamos queria ser ela, dançar como ela, esquecemos que todos somos seres humanos, cada um com sua cruz  e uma longa (espero) jornada a ser trilhada.

A dança pode ser o divisor de água, quando tudo parece estar desmoronando escore o penúltimo dominó, quebre o efeito e se permita!!

Nós, ocidentais, estabelecemos que ela é puro entretenimento, parece normas do direito consuetudinário, então ninguém em sã consciência pensa em viver exclusivamente disto, antes há a medicina, engenharia, direito,...correto?! E da nossa alma quem cuida? 

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Xerinhos quentes em todos.